Self Improvement is about Change...
Are you ready to become
Happier? Healthier? Wealthier?
............life itself is a unique experience that only you will have. Think about it for
a second, from the moment you are born to the moment you will die, you are the
only person to experience every second of your life.
Larry Kangas
Author of “The Dirty Little Secrets Exposed;
Unleashing the Power of You”
“How to Take Control of Your Life”
Welcome to BecomeYourBestSelf.Com, your common sense resource for
improving your life. We developed this by researching and listen to you. You
asked for a common sense, down to earth information site that addresses your
needs to get clarity, understanding and suggestions to improve your life.
We know this, we each get one lap around the track. What we don’t know is the
length of that track, but we do know we do not get a chance to stop or go back to
the starting line. To the contrary, every day we a step closer to the finish line, and
there is nothing we can do to change that. So, that being the case, why not make
the most of the journey? Why not choose to see what we can make of the trip?
Why not try to get the most out of it? Why be running around our own individual
track unsatisfied, miserable, accepting things the way they are, rather creating
things the way we want them to be?
Picture yourself approaching the finish line. Do you want to cross that line
knowing that you could have done better, or regretting the trip and wishing you
could go back to the starting line or cross it knowing that you gave it your best,
content with your effort and the results? Regardless of how you feel now, today,
does not dictate what you feel and know at the finish line. You have the power
and choice to make it what you want it to be.
Here are 10 things that you can choose to begin to work on today that will that will give you the power to improve your life:
1. Be a person of action. Don’t procrastinate.
2. Be responsible.
3. Face your fears.
4. Eliminate worry and guilt from your life.
5. Be a good listener.
6. Release your past and forgive.
7. Think positively.
8. Open the pathway to the universe.
9. Pursue knowledge.
10. Be grateful.
We have all made mistakes. We have all had events that we wish we could do
over. Nobody run the lap flawlessly, but what we take away from these mistakes
can and do shape us and our experience. The question is do we run around our
track running backwards, looking at what was, or do run looking forward, seeing
what is ahead of us and being better every step?
The fundamentals of our journey are knowledge, skill and attitude. These three
fundamentals guide us around our track. From the beginning we have been
acquiring knowledge about, life, our world and our universe. We start learning
the basics of life, then move into a formal education and then onto learning from
life experience. There are 4 levels of knowledge. 1. Don’t know, 2. Know we don’t
know, 3. Know about, 4. To know. The first is simple, we don’t know what we
don’t know. the second is we know that we don’t know, the third is to know
about, which can be dangerous, and finally is know, have the knowledge.
Dedicating yourself to knowing is critical process to becoming your best self.
The ultimate knowledge comes from not only understanding the what you know,
but understanding the why behind it. We will focus on the what AND the why to
help expand your ability to become your best self.
Skills are the how we do things. The are many areas of skills. Programming a
computer, engineering the construction of building, driving a truck, hitting a ball
are all skills. But so are coping, handling stress, developing effective routines
and habits are also skills. Physical skills are inherent and are developed.
Behavioral skills are learned and reinforced. We work hard on skill development
when it comes to doing something, but tend to neglect on minimize of focus and
attention to our behavioral skills. Becoming your best self requires that you learn
and understand how the behavioral skills contribute to your own self
development.
Attitude is how we approach and see things through our mindset and emotions.
Attitude is the energy that we apply to our journey. Attitude is either positive or
negative, courageous or fearful, hopeful or desperate. Attitude influence both
knowledge and skill. Attitude is the deciding factor of the experience we will have
on journey at any given moment. Attitude will always either help or hinder our
attempts to become your best self.
Becomeyourbestself.com is a resource that focuses on all the fundamentals. It
is not about telling you what you should do. It is about respecting who you are
and teaching the principles of human growth and behavior. It deals with
addressing the knowledge, skills and attitude that helps you to become your best
self. It gives you practical insight and focuses on not only the what, but the
critical why. It is designed to make you think, learn, understand and grow. It
empowers you to decide what you want and need to become your best self. It
celebrates our individual uniqueness and empowers you to become your best
self.
“...........we are a multidimensional being, living life the best we can. The best we
can is often not really the best we are, but we don’t know it.”
Larry Kangas
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